We are having bad sex according to philosopher and writer Byung-Chul Han. According to him our narcissism, the internet and our achievement-orientated society are to blame. How do we regain intimacy in a transparent era? Philosopher Marlou van Paridon talks about desire and eroticism, and what love can teach us. This lecture is connected to The String Quartet’s Guide to Sex and Anxiety, which was influenced by Byung-Chul Han’s work. An appropriate dinner will be served.